Dear my beloved friends..how's it going?Hope you all are in the pink of health.Today i want to tell about a really exciting secret.It is more likely to tips actually.The title which is most of us love to hear and read >>MARRIAGE.
Marriage is one of the sunnah of our beloved Prophet Muhammad.We as his followers is encouraged to marry when we reach the age that is capable to do the responsible.For those who had married,may Allah bless your marriages.For those who still waiting to pass through to that path(including me),let's learn from now as preparation to face the sweet sour of our future marriages.
"Marry those among you who are single, or the virtuous ones among yourselves, male or female: if they are in poverty, Allah will give them means out of His grace: for Allah encompasseth all, and he knoweth all things."(An-Nuur 24:32)
>>for Malay version;
"Dan kahwinkanlah orang-orang bujang (lelaki dan perempuan) dari kalangan kamu, dan orang-orang yang soleh dari hamba-hamba kamu, lelaki dan perempuan. Jika mereka miskin, Allah akan memberikan kekayaan kepada mereka dari limpah kurniaNya kerana Allah Maha Luas (rahmatNya dan limpah kurniaNya), lagi Maha Mengetahui."(An-Nuur 24:32)
Okay..i think maybe you are eager to know what kind of story and secret i want to tell you. So, without wasting time, i hope you enjoy the story.
A man and his fiance were married. It was a large celebration. All of their friends and family came to see the lovely ceremony and to partake of the festivities and celebrations. A wonderful time was had by all.
The bride was gorgeous in her white wedding gown and the groom was very dashing in his black tuxedo. Everyone could tell that the love they had for each other was true.
A few months later, the wife comes to the husband with a proposal: "I read in a magazine, a while ago, about how we can strengthen our marriage." She offered.
"Each of us will write a list of the things that we find a bit annoying with the other person.Then, we can talk about how we can fix them together and make our lives happier together."
The husband agreed. So each of them went to a separate room in the house and thought of the things that annoyed them about the other. They thought about this question or the rest of the day and wrote down what they came up with.
The next morning, at the breakfast table, they decided that they would go over their lists. "I'll start," offered the wife. She took out her list. It had many items on it. Enough to fill 3 pages, in fact. As she started reading the list of the little annoyances, she noticed that tears were starting to appear in her husbands eyes.
"What's wrong?" she asked. "Nothing" the husband replied, "keep reading your list. "The wife continued to read until she had read all three pages to her husband. She neatly placed her list on the table and folded her hands over top of it.
"Now, you read your list and then we'll talk about the things on both of our lists. "She said happily. Quietly the husband stated, "I don't have anything on my list. I think that you are perfect the way that you are. I don't want you to change anything for me. You are lovely and wonderful and I wouldn't want to try and change anything about you."
The wife, touched by his honesty and the depth of his love for her and his acceptance of her, turned her head and wept.
>>This is not to say that you must overlook every fault in your partner. If a marriage partner is abusive, or is an alcoholic or drug addict, or is unfaithful, or something of that nature then yes of course there must be changes.
But when it comes to the little things, remember that we are all imperfect beings, struggling to worship our Creator as best we can pursue our dreams, raise our families, put food on the table, and balance all of the above fairly. We all have faults. We all make mistakes.
"Those who avoid great sins and shameful deeds, only (falling into) small faults,- verily thy Lord is ample in forgiveness. He knows you well when He brings you out of the earth, And when ye are hidden in your mothers' wombs. Therefore justify not yourselves: He knows best who it is that guards against evil."(An-Najm 53:32)
or for Malay version:
(Iaitu) orang-orang yang menjauhi dosa-dosa besar serta perbuatan-perbuatan yang keji, kecuali salah silap yang kecil-kecil (yang mereka terlanjur melakukannya, maka itu dimaafkan). Sesungguhnya Tuhanmu Maha Luas keampunanNya. Ia lebih mengetahui akan keadaan kamu semenjak Ia mencipta kamu (berasal) dari tanah, dan semasa kamu berupa anak yang sedang melalui berbagai peringkat kejadian dalam perut ibu kamu; maka janganlah kamu memuji-muji diri kamu (bahawa kamu suci bersih dari dosa). Dia lah sahaja yang lebih mengetahui akan orang-orang yang bertaqwa. (An-Najm 53:32)
It was so wonderful to have a husband just like in the story..his heart and soul eternally belong to his wife..and it would be great if the husband can guide and educate his wife with islamic values. So that the couple can live happily ever after under of His blessings.Insya Allah
